melissaandq said: I'm terribly curious about your poly lifestyle. As a mom, I'm curious about how that works with a small child. Sorry if it seems intrusive. I'm not at all judging, just wanting to learn more.
If Husband or I go on dates (out of the house) we do so after she’s asleep. I’m limited to my interactions with significant others between the hours of 9pm and 3a.m, usually.
(However I do have a weekend trip planned, while Husband will stay at home with our kidlet)
If both of us go out that night, we have a trusted house-sitter.
And nobody comes to the house unless we have approved it with each other, and this is also after she is asleep. And these are typically people we have known for years.
Our daughter is 2.5, and I know better than to expose her to a parade of strangers in our personal space. Your inquiry is totally justified.